Wednesday, November 30, 2016

Some editorials are worth reading and others not - This one is from the FORWARD!

Some editorials are worth reading and others not - This one is from the FORWARD!

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kenneth ditkowsky

Nov 28 (2 days ago)
 
Editor's note: Your ProbateShark will testify that the crooks working in the Probate Court of Cook County are a nondiscrimination entity.  They will steal from anyone regardless of religion, race, sex or race...or anything!  Lucius Verenus, Schoolmaster, ProbateSharks.com
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Are Liberals Being Too Mean to Trump Voters?

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When my friend Jonathan Tobin and I began planning last spring for a cross-country synagogue speaking tour in the fall, we fully expected to meet with fireworks over Israeli policy. In fact, that was the point of our tour. At each stop, Jonathan the conservative Commentary blogger and I the liberal Forward columnist would argue the issues, as we’ve done for years. We wanted to show our audiences how Jews could debate Israel and its dilemmas with respect, even friendship. Given how divided communities have become, our host rabbis couldn’t wait for us to arrive.
What we hadn’t counted on was President-elect Donald Trump.
Of course, we knew that with our tour beginning November 10, two days after Election Day — and taking us to 12 cities in 13 days — the presidential race would be on people’s minds. Nobody anticipated a Trump victory, though. Nor did we expect the intense wave of emotion that would sweep the country in its wake, nor the way it would divide the Jewish community.
It’s true that Jewish communities have found it increasingly difficult in recent years to maintain a civil tone when conducting public dialogue on divisive topics, especially where Israel is concerned. Public programs on Israel tend to end in shouting and name-calling, to the point where some congregations have simply stopped mounting discussions of Israel. But the election of Trump as our next president has introduced a whole new level of acrimony. The outcome doesn’t provoke discussion but ends it, bringing stony silences and ruptured friendships. One rabbi told us that Hebrew school parents who had backed Trump were telling their children not to discuss how they’d voted with classmates, for fear that the family would be ostracized.
Jonathan and I weren’t fully prepared to navigate this emotional thicket in the same manner that we presented the Israel debate. The fact is that we didn’t disagree. Tobin and his magazine were opposed to Trump throughout the campaign, as were other journals of conservative thought like Weekly Standard and National Review. Trump voters in the audience didn’t find themselves validated in our back and forth in the same way that pro-Israel liberals were. Looking out from the pulpit, you could see them in the crowd, identified by the smirks they wore when I spoke and the looks of disappointment they gave Jonathan. After each event they crowded around him, apparently seeing him as the closest thing they had to an ally.
They’re not few in number. Exit polls suggest that Trump received about 25% of Jewish votes to Hillary Clinton’s 70%, with the rest going to Gary Johnson and Jill Stein. In other words, Clinton did worse among Jewish voters than most other recent Democrats, and Trump’s score among Jews was right in the middle of the recent Republican range. Jewish Trump voters have a case to make that the acrimony they’re encountering is unfair.
The acrimony isn’t just among Jews. The New York Times, in a lengthy November 15 account, described post-election rifts dividing friends and even family members across the country. By and large it appears to be Democrats and liberals who are drawing the line, cutting off ties with people who voted for “a man they say stands for things they abhor.” One interviewee said she felt she’d been living among people “who have been hiding their true selves, and now with this vote, their true selves are more apparent.” Trump voters, in turn, express resentment at being accused of racism and spurned by their own relatives.
The Times report describes the overall trend as the latest example of a growing culture war among Americans segregated by class and education. It doesn’t explain what makes this election different and how it became, as it seems, a turning point.
Another attempt at explaining the phenomenon comes from Dennis Prager, the conservative radio host and sometime Jewish philosopher. In his November 22 columnin the Jewish Journal of Los Angeles, he describes the Times account and adds some cases of his own, including callers to his radio show who say “their daughters” won’t let them see their grandchildren because the elders voted for Trump.
Prager cuts right to the question that the Times dances around, namely why the “phenomenon of cutting off contact with friends and relatives” is “so one-sided.” After all, he writes, “conservatives were not one whit less fearful of Hillary Clinton and the Democrats than Democrats were of Donald Trump and Republicans.”
His answer (admittedly a regular theme of Prager’s) is that “there are more mean people on the left than on the right.” That conservatives read and hear more liberal views than vice versa. Also: “Most left-wing positions are deeply emotionally based,” so it’s natural for liberals to “react so emotionally when their candidate lost.” And this: “Most people on the right think that most people on the left are wrong. Most people on the left think that most people on the right are evil.” And most alarming of all: “Most individuals on the left are irreligious, so the commandment ‘Honor your father and mother’ means nothing.”
It’s an interesting thesis, particularly if you believe that the way to explain one group’s vilifying of another group is to vilify right back at them. But it still doesn’t answer the critical question: Why is this presidential election different from all other presidential elections? We’ve had close elections, disputed elections, even elections that produced a result which the losers rejected. But this is the first election, I think, in which the losing side repudiated not just the winning candidate, but his voters.
There are at least two factors at work here. One is the profound grief felt by many Democrats, especially women activists, at the unexpected failure of what they were convinced was going to be a historic achievement, the election of the first woman president. Many believed that the tides of history had turned in their favor, that the American people were fully ready to finalize the equality of women, as they had accepted so many recent social and cultural changes, by placing a woman in the nation’s highest office. It was deeply shocking to find that the public’s readiness had been overestimated, that the longed-for change that seemed so imminent had in fact not yet arrived.
The second factor is, quite simply, Trump himself. He was not a presidential candidate like other candidates before him, and he does not appear likely to be a president like those before. His declared positions on religious and ethnic minorities, his frivolous attitudes toward treaties and international law, toward nuclear weapons use, press freedom and the broader First Amendment, indeed his very approach to campaigning as an exercise in insult and vilification — all these things go beyond normal political debate.
Liberals’ objections are not over policies or ideology, but fundamental values of democracy, even decency. To understand liberals’ unusual outrage this year, one must recognize Trump’s deviance from the accepted norms of American democratic politics. He has changed the rules without the consent of the other side.
Conservatives, at least the Trump voters, may like the changes they’ve seen. But they need to understand that, just as many liberals may have overestimated the readiness of fully half the public for rapid social change, conservatives have underestimated the assault that Trump represents on the values and sensibilities of the other half.

Tuesday, November 29, 2016

tolerance, integrity, and us

tolerance, integrity, and us -   
Editor's note: This Shark believes that our new A.G. should approach the Elder Cleansing cases precipitated by the Probate Court of Cook County with vigor!  There is no paucity of witnesses who would volunteer testimony against these probate criminals.  Lucius Verenus, Schoolmaster, ProbateSharks.com
America may have problems and may have its share of hypocrites and miscreants, but, indeed it is a melting pot stuffed with some of the most wonderful people any one can imagine.   It is amazing that in a small arena such as the US so many fantastic people can be found.   All of us do stupid things and most of us do them when it is most inconvenient and embarrassing.  

However - the exceptions prove the rule.    I can see no redeeming virtues in the public officials who are corrupt and prey in concert with real criminals on the elderly and the disabled.   Nor can I see anything good in the public officials who use their public offices to 'cover up' the terrible conduct of the miscreant criminals above.

I wish that we could lump all the bad people into the persona of one individual and we could all hate him/her.   Unfortunately, no one individual qualifies for such hatred.   Yes, there are a few people I would like to nominate for the role of universal bad guy, but, it is intellectually dishonest to label any single individual as totally evil and beyond any type of redemption.   This Pollyanna view is taxed when I think of the Guardian ad Litem who orchestrated the quest for gold in the mouth of Alice Gore or the public officials who have gone to the mat to protect her and make certain that she could continue her infamy on other disabled elders.   

a public office is a public trust - this includes minor offices such as Guardian ad Litem, *******Mr. Cannon - real clear politics is not "real clear" when it is polluted by the parochial quest for riches that has turned the overbroad guardianship scandal into a WAR ON THE ELDERLY AND DISABLED for profit.    The victim elderly and their families receive zero tolerance and compassion from the public officials who are engaged in either elder cleansing or covering up the scandal.   I call your attention to the Probate Sharks, MaryGSykes, NASGA, AAAPG blogs and the four Government Accounting Offices reports to Congress!     I call your attention to our call for an HONEST INVESTIGATION!   The Establishment raised a hue and cry against the HONEST INVESTIGATION but none against the Elder Cleansing. 
 


From: Carl M. Cannon <ccannon@realclearpolitics.com>
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Subject: RCP Morning Note, 11/28/2016: Pardon Rosie; Constitutional Questions; Bad Science; Restoring Tolerance


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Pardon Rosie; Constitutional Questions; Bad Science; Restoring Tolerance

By Carl M. Cannon on Nov 28, 2016 08:46 am
Good morning. It's Monday, November 28, 2016. I hope you all had a good Thanksgiving weekend. Now it's back to politics. Today is the birthday of the man who gave the most inspiring political speech of the 2010 election cycle. The pride of New Jersey's Lawrence High School and the College of William and Mary wasn't even a candidate for elective office, yet he spoke for millions of Americans who would like more maturity from their politicians (and cable commentators) that they typically get.
All Jon Stewart did was call for a little civility and common sense in our political discourse. But he did so in a simple, yet brilliant, way. The lessons he tried to impart are even more relevant now than they were six years ago, as I'll explain further in a moment.
First, I'd point you to our front page, which aggregates columns and stories spanning the political spectrum. We also offer a nice complement of original material from our own reporters and contributors this morning, including the following:
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Pardon Rosie O'Donnell! In a column, I offer the president-elect some advice about burying the hatchet and providing second chances.
A Poor Guide for Trump's High Court Choices. Peter Berkowitz weighs in on the views of a purported nonpartisan legal scholar.
JASTA Misses the True State Sponsor of Terrorism. In RealClearDefense, Peter Huessy considers reasons to amend or repeal the law that eliminated sovereign immunity to lawsuits by American citizens.
An Outsider's Peek Inside the Pentagon War Machine. RCD editor David Craig reviews Rosa Brooks' "How Everything Became War and the Military Became Everything."
The Worst Websites for Science in 2016. Ross Pomeroy compiled this list.
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Jonathan Stuart Leibowitz entered the world on this day in 1962. No word on whether he cracked up New York delivery room nurses and doctors with spoofs of the news, but by January 1999, when he replaced Craig Kilborn as host of "The Daily Show," he was going by Jon Stewart.
That program helped launch the comedy-laced careers of Steve Carell and Stephen Colbert, and has won multiple Emmy Awards, but Stewart turned his gift for satire into something, well, more serious. In 2004, he and his staff released a best-selling mock-history textbook titled "America (The Book): A Citizen's Guide to Democracy Inaction."
In 2010, in a "restore sanity" rally on the National Mall, Stewart ended the zany entertainment with a serious and surprisingly eloquent call for both tolerance and unity.
"Look on the screen ... [which was showing traffic merging into the Holland Tunnel]. This is who we are," he said.
"These cars -- that's a schoolteacher who probably thinks his taxes are too high. He's going to work," Stewart added. "There's another car -- a woman with two small kids who can't really think about anything else right now. The lady's in the NRA and she loves Oprah. There's another car -- an investment banker, gay, also likes Oprah. Another car's a Latino carpenter. Another car -- a fundamentalist vacuum salesman. Atheist obstetrician. Mormon Jay-Z fan. But this is us.
"Every one of the cars that you see is filled with individuals of strong belief and principles they hold dear -- often principles and beliefs in direct opposition to their fellow travelers. And yet these millions of cars must somehow find a way to squeeze one by one into a mile-long 30-foot-wide tunnel carved underneath a mighty river. ... And they do it. Concession by concession. You go. Then I'll go. You go. Then I'll go. You go, then I'll go.
"Oh, my God -- is that an NRA sticker on your car? Is that an Obama sticker on your car? Well, that's OK -- you go and then I'll go."
Words to live by.
Carl M. Cannon
Washington Bureau chief, RealClearPolitics
@CarlCannon (Twitter)
ccannon@realclearpolitics.com

Monday, November 28, 2016

Prince’s Estate Dispute

          Prince’s Estate Dispute

Prince’s Estate Dispute

Loren Barr's Trusts and Estates Legal Blogs

 

 

Partner at firm Barr & Young Attorneys
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On April 21, 2016, Prince was found dead at his Paisley Park complex in Minnesota from an accidental overdose. With no recognized Will or established Trust, Prince left behind an estate valued between $100 – $300 million. This estimate does not include:
current and future income, including royalties from music sales after Prince’s death
tickets sales from tours of the Paisley Park Museum that began less than six months after his death; and proceeds from a tribute concert scheduled for October 13, 2016
With hundreds of millions of dollars at stake, who are the legal heirs, what are their claims, and who will end up with most of the money?
Carver County District Judge Kevin Eide is presiding over the matter. In a ruling issued in July 2016, Judge Eide certified six people as presumptive heirs: Prince’s sister, Tyka Nelson, and Prince’s half-siblings, Sharon Nelson, Norrine Nelson, John Rodger Nelson, Alfred Jackson, and Omarr Baker. In his 19-page order, Judge Eide accepted their claims to Prince’s estate, stating,
“The court is not aware of any objection or dispute with the statement that these persons are the siblings or half-siblings.”
Judge Eide ordered that Tyka Nelson and her three half-siblings, Sharon, Norrine and John Rodger Nelson undergo genetic testing to confirm they are rightful heirs. The judge did not order genetic testing for half-brothers Alfred Jackson and Omar Baker, who shared a mother with Prince.
Judge Eide also ordered genetic testing for Brianna and Victoria Nelson, who claim to be Prince’s niece and grandniece, respectively. They are the daughter and granddaughter of the late Duane Nelson Sr., whom they contend was one of Prince’s half-siblings. Attorneys representing Brianna and Victoria Nelson have filed a constitutional challenge to the requirement that they substantiate their claims with genetic evidence. Their attorneys contend the requirement violates federal and state constitutional equal protection laws: “The Minnesota Probate Code does not limit heirs in this way. Even if the Probate Code did permit such limitations, the protocol’s blanket exclusion of entire classes of family relationships violates the fundamental protections of due process and equal protection accorded by the U.S. Constitution.” The attorneys argue that Prince referred to Duane Nelson Sr. as his brother, and that no sibling had a closer relationship to him. (John L. Nelson’s name appears as father on both Prince’s and Duane’s birth certificates, though they were born a few months apart to different women.) “The proposed protocol does not recognize that John Nelson held out Duane as his son,” they said, and further argue that current protocol fails to recognize family relationships like the one Duane had with Prince. The judge plans to hold hearings in November 2016 on the issues related to Brianna and Victoria Nelson, and the order related to genetic testing.
In the same ruling acknowledging the presumptive heirs, Judge Eide excluded 29 would-be heirs to the estate. Excluded claims include
A wife professing to marriage records classified as top secret by the CIA
Five people who came forward claiming Prince was their biological or adoptive father
Several others claiming their father was also Prince’s genetic parent by way of an extramarital affair with their mother.
Also dismissed were several claims by people who described themselves as descendants of a sister of Prince’s great-grandfather.
Lastly, Carlin Q. Williams, a 39-year-old prisoner, claimed to be Prince’s son.
Genetic testing established that he is not.
Because no will has been found, Minnesota law will determine how Prince’s estate will be distributed. Under current law, Prince’s children would inherit the estate; however, it appears Prince had no children, therefore the estate goes to his siblings. It will be apportioned in equal shares to his siblings and the nearest surviving descendants of any siblings now dead. Under Minnesota law, siblings and half-siblings are treated the same.
However, Prince failed to do any tax or estate planning, so his heirs should not expect to receive the full amount of his estate after he dies. The Internal Revenue Service will take up to 40% and the State of Minnesota will take another 16%.
At Tyka Nelson’s request, the court appointed Bremer Trust to serve as special administrator of the estate pending the appointment of an executor, following the court officially naming the legal heirs. Bremer has begun selling some of Prince’s real estate holdings in anticipation of the estate taxes that will be incurred. Judge Eide ruled that Bremer Trust may also hire and retain “identified entertainment industry experts” through November 2, 2016 — the day that Bremer’s role overseeing and managing the estate is set to expire. According to Eide,
“There are business-related decisions which need to be made promptly on behalf of the Estate and the Special Administrator needs the advice of industry experts to make these decisions in a prudent manner.”

Sunday, November 27, 2016

How a Wolf Named Romeo Won Hearts in an Alaska Suburb

How a Wolf Named Romeo Won Hearts in an Alaska Suburb

Editor's note: This Shark remembers his pet Timberwolf, Cheyenne...an example of a loving, tender wolf...  Lucius Verenus, Schoolmaster, ProbateSharks.com

                   

It’s one thing to have a tolerant meeting with a wild wolf that goes on for a matter of minutes. But this went on for six years.

 
            
In the winter of 2003, a jet-black wolf appeared at the edge of suburban Juneau, Alaska. It was not the snarling villain of folklore. This wolf seemed to crave the company of humans and their dogs.
Soon Romeo, as the wolf came to be known, captured the hearts of almost the entire town. But its presence raised complex questions. Should a predatory animal, however friendly, be encouraged to live among people and their children? What if someone decided to shoot it?
Talking from his winter home in Florida, Nick Jans, a former hunter turned wildlife photographer and the author of A Wolf Called Romeo, describes how some tracks in the snow led to an encounter that would change his life; why the Inuit revere the wolf; and why there are parts of the book he still can’t read in public without crying.
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This is a wonderful book full of surprises that challenge cultural stereotypes of wolves, human beings, and dogs. Set the scene. How did you first meet the wolf called Romeo?
The first thing I saw was tracks out on the lake in front of our house on the outskirts of Juneau. A few days later, I looked out from my house and there was this wolf out on the ice. I’d had 20 years of experience around wolves up in the Arctic and immediately knew it was a wolf, not a dog. I threw on my skis and found him.
The amazing thing about this animal was how relatively relaxed and tolerant he was. That’s not out of the question for wolves. Certain wolves are like dogs, and they all have different personalities. Some are more cautious or fearful than others. But this wolf was downright relaxed and tolerant from the start, as if he had dropped out of the sky like a unicorn.
It’s one thing to have a tolerant meeting with a wild wolf that goes on for a matter of minutes. But this went on for six years, so we got to know this wolf, whom we came to call Romeo, as an individual. And he got to know us and our dogs.
For want of a better word, the only thing I can say from a human perspective is that it amounted to friendship. If you wanted to be scientifically correct, it would be “social mutual tolerance.” But it was more than that. The wolf would come trotting over to say hi, and give a little bow and a relaxed yawn, and go trotting after us when we went skiing. There was no survival benefit. He obviously just enjoyed our company.
Romeo was a bit of a flirt, and like Shakespeare’s Romeo seemed to fall in love with your Juliet of a yellow Labrador. How did you accept this odd pairing? And how did Romeo challenge your own preconceptions of wolfish behavior?
The first thing is that wolves have a tendency to attack strange canines and at least beat them down, if not eat them. It’s a pretty common thing, as any good wolf biologist will tell you, that any wolf’s job in his righteous social behavior is to investigate and assault strange canines. They very seldom accept strangers.
This wolf was downright relaxed and tolerant from the start, as if he had dropped out of the sky.
A pack of wolves is typically a family group. Think of it like the Mafia. The Gambinis do not accept the Genoveses in their midst. They’re very rigorous about that. We were keeping our dog under control and she just slipped out from under my fingers, which were hooked around her collar. That first meeting, when Dakotah—our “Juliet”—and Romeo stood nose to nose, is recorded on the cover of the book.
If you look at that photo, you see the wolf is very much being a boy. He’s standing very tall, with his ears narrow and his tail slightly up, his neck ruff raised a little bit. He’s being very flirtatious. Dakotah is very confident but giving a neutral signal with her tail straight out. They’re both very relaxed; there’s not the least hint of aggression. And that was very typical of how Romeo interacted with dogs.
How did he get his name?
My wife, who did not exactly approve of this “miscegenation” because of the potential danger, was looking out the window one frosty morning and there was the wolf curled up out on the lake ice, waiting for Dakotah to come out.
With that arms folded, slightly protective tone of voice any mother with a cute teenage daughter would use, she said, “There’s that Romeo wolf again.” The name caught on because it fit. He was not only doing this with our dog, he was also flirting with others. But he certainly had favorites, just as people do: dog friends, dog acquaintances, and dog BFFs.
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The local newspaper reported on the wolf’s visits, and he became a fixture. People would say, “I’m going to the lake to see the wolf.” A lot of people wanted to get close to him, but most strangers couldn’t get closer than a hundred yards.

Though humans love dogs, we are not so kind to their cousins. Can you briefly explain the difference between domesticated dogs and wolves? And why humans are generally so afraid of wolves?
The fear seems rooted in our genetic consciousness. We have the big, bad wolf; we have Peter and the Wolf; we have the Three Little Pigs. There are no cuddly wolves in our mythology, though there are lots of cuddly bears: Winnie the Pooh, the Berenstain Bears, and so on. Never mind the fact that bears, especially grizzlies, are much more dangerous to humans [than wolves are].
When you get down to the genetic difference between a wolf and a domestic dog, whether it is a Chihuahua or a Great Dane, all dogs are 99.98 percent genetically a wolf. That 0.02 percent obviously looms huge, because if you raise a wolf cub from the time it opens its eyes, it may make a wonderfully bonded animal, but it will not be a dog, no matter what you do. It will act like a wolf and be a wolf. It takes generations to shape the soul of a wolf and its physical shape into “man’s best friend.”
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The fear of wolves seems rooted in our genetic consciousness, and in many stories, like Little Red Riding Hood (illustrated above by Gustave Dore, c. 1880), the big bad wolf is a menace. But all dogs are 99.98 percent genetically a wolf.

Indigenous peoples see wolves in a completely different way. Take us inside that mind-set.
The Inuit are not just attuned to the natural world. They are part of it. A couple of them became my friends, and I traveled with one in particular. He was a superb tracker and amazing hunter. I went along with him and learned what he had to teach me.
The Inuit would not even say the word “wolf,” or amaruk in Inuktitut. They would use aliases because they believed if you talked about an animal, it could hear you. They believed the animal wasn’t just an equal, but a superior being with magical powers.
As the ultimate hunter in a landscape of hunter-gatherers, wolves were revered. But many Inuit communities also had the same unreasoning fear of wolves that you see in European culture. I had several Eskimo hunters tell me to be extremely careful and keep my rifle by me because when wolves came around your camp, they might be trying to grab you.
But the Inuit also sought out wolves to breed with their semi-domesticated dogs. They wanted some of that blood in their dogs—the wolf’s intelligence and the wolf’s incredible endurance and toughness.
You tried to keep Romeo a secret from the Juneau community, but after a few winters even the local newspapers were writing about him. Did the Juneau community surprise you by its reaction to the wolf?
The reactions covered a continuum. Everything from “the only good wolf is a dead wolf” and “let’s kill this one now,” to “this is a spiritual creature that is beyond us”—the New Age version of a wolf.
From the time he first started showing up, it was reported in the paper, and it went from a handful of people to hundreds of people within a couple of months. He became a fixture. People would say, “I’m going to the lake to see the wolf.” But some people were extremely hostile to the whole idea. Some people didn’t care one way or another. It was a wild animal. They wanted to go out there and ski or play with their kids, and as long as the wolf kept his distance, that was fine. It’s Alaska, after all.
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Author Nick Jans shows a plaque at the memorial held for Romeo in November 2010. The average life span of a wolf in the wild is three years, and Romeo was at least eight years old at the time of his death.

A lot of people were fascinated by this animal and wanted to get close to him. He more or less allowed it, although he had a very elastic sense of personal space. Typically, most strangers couldn’t get closer than a hundred yards. But if it were someone he knew and whose dogs he knew, you’d find yourself within touching distance of him. There were a number of times when I could have reached out and brushed my hand along his back as he went by. But I never did.
You began to withdraw from spending time with Romeo, but he used to wait for you to bring your dogs out for a walk. Should the local people have continued to interact with the wolf?
It was a slippery slope. Not just for the people, but also the [wildlife] management agencies. What if this wolf goes somewhere else where he might be in more danger? At least here he was spending most of the winter in an area where hunting and trapping was illegal.
The average life span of a wolf in the wild is three years. Romeo was already full grown when he showed up, and then he lived among us for six-plus more years. So he was at least eight years old at the time of his death. So we must have been keeping him safe because he outlived a wild wolf by nearly three times.
We were these three species working out how to get along harmoniously. And we did.
How do you explain Romeo’s behavior? Was he just more dog than wolf?
He was a pure wild wolf. He was not a pet, as some suggested, that had been released, because then he would have been coming to us for food. He was his own gatekeeper and came and went as he pleased. Sometimes he disappeared for weeks. He clearly was catching and eating wild food with great skill.
Wolves that are socially tolerant to humans must have appeared to us not once, but many times over our history. Clearly, dogs came from wolves. But the question is, Where and how? The latest theories suggest there were multiple points of domestication. So there must have not been one wolf like Romeo. There must have been a number of wolves in the past that came to lie down by our fires.
Like humans, wolves are predators. Yet Romeo shows us a different side of wolf nature. Talk about the role of play and how it is a part of even wild creatures’ natures.
When you have a very intelligent, social animal like a wolf, play—just as it is for dogs—is an important practice and a rehearsal of necessary survival skills. When you watch dogs playing, what are they doing? They’re play-fighting a lot of the time. They’re chasing; they’re engaging in predatory behaviors, games of chase. Play also cements the social structure of a pack. And Romeo was an unbelievably playful animal. He would run into the middle of a game of fetch and steal the tennis ball, run off with it, throw it up in the air, and bat it with his paws.
For my friend Harry Robinson, who had an incredibly close relationship with the wolf, the wolf would bring out toys that he’d stashed. One was a Styrofoam float. Romeo would pick it up and bring it to Harry to throw. He clearly understood the same sort of behaviors that we see in dogs. Any highly intelligent animal, from killer whales to wolverines, will engage in play when they have leisure and aren’t engaged in survival.
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“For want of a better word, the only thing I can say from a human perspective is that it amounted to friendship” between the wolf and the people and their dogs, says the author.

How did Romeo change your life?    
Romeo was the single most transformative event of my life. I am about to turn 60, and knowing him was the culmination of why I came to Alaska in the first place and an absolutely magical experience. His life and death are not something that I ever expect to get over. It’s part of who I am. I find myself waking up at night and thinking about him. If I am doing a reading in front of an audience, there are certain places in the book I cannot read. If I do, I can guarantee I will be a blubbering mess. And when I look up, everybody else is misty-eyed too.
The amazing thing was Romeo’s understanding. It wasn’t just our understanding and tolerance. It was the combination of his and ours and the dogs’. We were these three species working out how to get along harmoniously. And we did.
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